Sometimes it’s not possible to solve a problem. I am in that situation right now and so I vent to people who understand my situation and who also know they are free to vent to me when they need to. If I could change the situation, I would, but it is not within my control and I think it is important to be able to vent your frustrations in a situation like that because holding in the stress is unhealthy. I also work off the stress in other ways, but sometimes communicating to a sympathetic person is what you really need. When a situation is possible to change, I don’t complain, I take action.