answer:Done. Come to me Brother. Hug time. More seriously, request an older female mentor. Way more effective for a guy in his twenties. You will pay attention to her and not get that competitive male resentment thing going. In addition, they see the world a little bit different and the insight you would find more valuable then something you are gonna get from another guy. I had an older female mentor in the workplace and she taught me loads of things. And she was easy on the eyes.