answer:It’s almost a daily thing for me. But life has no pause button, and the world will still move at the same speed no matter how fast or slow you go. I try not to dwell on it for the same reason I don’t stare at my rear-view mirror to the exclusion of all else when I drive; the past is a good thing to be aware of, but getting caught up in it will allow the future to hit you like a truck. As an aside though, with only one job between you now, it sounds perfectly logical for you to stay where you are, if for no reason other than at least one of you is eligible for the benefits most employers don’t give new employees like insurance.