answer:X is dead. I said bullshit. They indeed passed away, still chuckle when I remember them Rather remember them in happy times then in anger. Enjoy the time you got with people man, once their dead they are dead. One other thing, don't question a older person's life too much either. Doesn't mean don't ask them about their past or life, just take into factor if they are the oldest on the family and friend group. They seen many friends and family go. Grandpa was the oldest of his brothers, his friends and 4 younger brother died. Ain't easy.