Am I a lesbian? I'm weird?

Hi, I have such a strange problem. A few days ago, I saw a guy who liked me a lot, we laughed at each other, so we had a fb. 10 min. we talked, nice, handsome boy. After all 2, I just didn't like it but I just wouldn't have anything to do with it, nothing. maybe I even wanted him, but then it went away, not that he behaved disgustingly, he's funny, normal, just no mistake. Well, before I went to bed, I imagined we could be a good couple and stuff. But then no more, I don't know what happened. he behaved nicely, he didn't do anything .. I really want a boy, I would still like to kiss, maybe it's because I'm just not ready for a relationship? I can't even imagine a kiss with him anymore. I'm afraid I'm a lesbian. But the boys attract me more ..   
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