Hello, I got into a very unpleasant situation, I'm finishing Vš and the supervisor of my final thesis tried to "come out" after me during the consultation. I've always loved this professor, I'm 23 and he's about 60, I never thought he could see anything else behind our friendship. I thought I had misinterpreted his consultation behavior and tried to forget about it. When I called him a few weeks later to get advice on literature, he didn't say anything inappropriate. But in the evening he called me back and I said if I would have a drink, I declined politely and he again insisted that in a few days he would have a lecture in the city where I lived and that I would meet him. I refused again and he said he would call me again. It's a terrible situation when I imagine that I should go to his office, I'm sick, I've already had stress from work like this, let alone now, that I'm afraid to advise him when I have a problem somewhere. I am also afraid that my rejection will affect his evaluation of my work. Unfortunately, I can't change the professor, because I have to submit my job in a month. Please advise me

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I would always politely reject him and I would record all communication with him so that there could be evidence and how he would suggest that I would not pass if something did not pull out I would take the evidence and push him to the wall in a way that I would pass without a test

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