What should I do to take care of all these issues Im having before I have a nervous breakdown?

What should I do to take care of all these issues Im having before I have a nervous breakdown?
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Do what you can to help with your Aunt (I’m really sorry to hear that), drop the guy friend (with the girl) – drama; take care of yourself (eat well, exercise, chill, sleep well), get outside of yourself (so to speak) and volunteer (get out of your head)—meet new (decent) people that way (potential friends?). If you try your best and still you and your Mom don’t see eye to eye, maybe, think about family counseling. I wish you luck!
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