How can I help someone understand that medication/therapy would make a difference?

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I don’t mean to be an old woman nagging at kids, but I do remember. All teenagers have some angst , its part of growing up. I found poetry I wrote in Grade 12. I didn’t realize I was that unhappy!! Because, of course, it changed daily. Do you think yours or his is beyond that? Are there guidance counsellers you can talk to?

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