There is no one way. I think conversation can tell a lot, but I also play an instrument. Not being afraid to express all my opinions helps. Of course, in some contexts, that’s not necessarily a good idea. It’s also a long process. I can’t give it all to you in one sitting. You have to be with me in a variety or situations—work, home, having fun, at the doctor, with my parents, on vacation, etc. As Walt Whitman said, “I contain multitudes.”