Any tips for someone who has to keep their cool while dealing face to face with someone out to destroy them?

Any tips for someone who has to keep their cool while dealing face to face with someone out to destroy them?
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answer:There is an inner place of calm and repose that you need to tap into! Practice deep-breathing exercises until you have found this place. Then, when you have your meeting, reach down to that place and tap into the peace you have there. ( This is hard to explain with just typewritten words, but I thought I’d give it a try )
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