What rituals do you follow during the holidays, or what have you ritualized?

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answer:Other than making a few ‘traditional’ family recipes I am on the other side of years of huge family/child raising must do’s for the holiday season. Oh, and taking Xmas pics of the pets! My avatar is one of Marwyn’s Xmas pics from last year. Deck the halls with bowtied ganders! :-) I LOVE the freedom from all the hardcore hype and have not put up a tree in about 9 years now. I decorate with candles, string cool ornaments and lights on my asian screens in the living room, put up several small beaded minature trees and buy myself something really cool like the 7 foot memory foam ‘bean bag’ loveseat I just ordered from Amazon for my movie room. lol I enjoy hostessing a small party for friends and neighbors and having my daughter and her boyfriend over for a gift exchange & hangout. Simplicty is where it’s at these days!

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