I'm researching my husband's last name, are any of you knowledgeable about where to find trustworthy info?

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Ancestry.com and family tree maker My mom was working on finding our family crest when she passed. The one thing she did, was actually find a library in England, that had the crest in it. They were able to make certified copies and send it to us. The best thing is to get the general area in Scotland and get in touch with historians, and Liberians in the area they might be able to direct you in the right direction

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