Do you think that the reason why when people get married the wife takes the husbands last name is down to a repressed Oediplus complex?

Do you think that the reason why when people get married the wife takes the husbands last name is down to a repressed Oediplus complex?
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The idea for the name change is historically just to indicate the wife was now part of the husband’s family. Also i think I heard once that in japan the groom takes the bride’s family name so it could go either way.
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