answer:Hard as it is, since you have had some experience, you never give advice unless asked. You could, however, mention that you have walked in her shoes, are further along in the journey and would be happy to help if she wants. If she says, “No,” then you tell her that the offer is on the table, whenever she likes. And perhaps direct her towards the online forums of people who have been there and done that, both effectively and with dire consequences. I am sure that her doctors have told her in the strongest terms of the results if she stays on her present course. And UC, like IRBS, is all-too prevalent. There is tons of information out there. You are being thoughtful, of course, but be prepared to be rejected.