How do I help my fifteen year old son get through his first heartbreak?

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Awww. Maybe can you share a dissappointment you had when you were a teen. Let him know he is not alone in these matters. I think probably he will recover quickly from this, hopefully he has an opportunity soon to flirt with a girl and get an ego boost.

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