I've Lost my Brother, Can You Help?

I've Lost my Brother, Can You Help?
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answer:Hire a private investigator…give him any information you might have and see what he can do with it. Hopefully he’s alright.
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Was I wrong for wanting to help, but wanting to stay neutral, too?

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What do you do, can you do when someone you love is going crazy?

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Have you ever had family dump something on you that you want no part of?

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Did you try to "spare" family members when you were a child?

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Do children have regular "earlier than adult" bed-times anymore?

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How to deal with family?

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Last Answer : Were you close to your parents before your brother passed? Just give them some space to them you are here for them let them come to you.

If nepotism is illegal, how is Trump getting away with it?

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Would you keep trying with your biological father?

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How do I find myself?

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Are your siblings people you would choose to know socially if you weren’t related to them?

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What to do about these family heirlooms?

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Have you ever been embarrassed by your relatives in public?

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Do you have a really funny family member?

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Why does my family just think they can take over my life?

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Last Answer : We have a moving day coming up this weekend for our disabled grandmother and elderly great-gandmother, so I sympathize. Our whole family is getting together to go in and move them. You need to be clear with your family that they must help!