What should I do about this awkward tank top situation?

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answer:Be honest. Tell boyfriend exactly what you have told us. Tell him you want his advice, which you will follow. This isn’t important enough to shred the relationship over. So if he says that he is uncomfortable with you wearing it, then follow what he says. HOW he answers is going to depend a lot on his ego, and how secure he feels in the relationship with you. (in other words, this will tell you a lot about him – if he is a controlling personality, etc.) But the bottom line is – be honest. Lay it out. And accept the answer.

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