My father is terrible and I never want to see him again so why do I still feel guilty?

My father is terrible and I never want to see him again so why do I still feel guilty?
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Maybe it’s because that, no matter what, he is still your father. I’m sorry you are having a hard time dealing with this issue today. Maybe if you just try to keep busy you won’t dwell on this being father’s day and your dads bad behavior.
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