Should I confront this guy (Please see details)?

Should I confront this guy (Please see details)?
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My girlfriend’s cousin ( I am a lesbian) is Pentecostal (and one of the butchiess people that I have ever met). She believes that we’re all (gays and lesbians) going to hell for our behavior. I’m not gonna change the way she thinks, so why bother. I’d let it go.
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