answer:If you are in love, or think you are, with someone who treats you shabbily, then you walk away. Refuse to be a victim any more. If someone is crapping on you (whatever, specifically, that means) move out of range. And remember this question? “Hey guys, ever find yourself in a situation where you just dont feel the same about someone and they just dont get it? How do you go about getting the message through? What if its a friend of yours?” Perhaps you need to examine how and why you form attachments or relationships. Examine yourself first. .