Why is losing your virginity a big deal?

Why is losing your virginity a big deal?
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Puritan ethics, and romantic fluff. The first time is never really great, it takes years to finally tune ones sexuality. However…one should not treat it as nothing more than something to get over and done with either. It is a right of passage and the passage should be a little more special and significant than getting a tooth pulled. haha
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Last Answer : Yes I had that problem too after loosing my first virginity. But loosing the second, third and fourth virginity’s gets much easier.

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Last Answer : I lost it at the age of 16. My pair was 14 then, so this is a normal stem.

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