We all are all allowed ONE 'do over' in the next 48 hours. What's your's going to be?

We all are all allowed ONE 'do over' in the next 48 hours. What's your's going to be?
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I would go back to my high school year and tell myself to just stop asking for peer acceptance. There was no point in that, they still didn’t like me no matter hard I tried, and it also brought some irritating drama I had to deal with after I left school. I would also avoid that long depression and self-hatred.
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