answer:I’ve been there and all you can do is count on the fact that things will work out one way or another. They usually do even if it is not your preferred choice. It also depends on what you are trying to achieve and if your expectations are too high. Big difference in exhausting all possibilities if you’re teetering on the verge of something dire like homelessness vs. not being able to save a million dollars in 2 years. lol Yes, there comes a time when you have to leave things to luck, chance, and just trust that somehow, some way, it will all come together.