I had a fight with my Ex. How can I just get over her?

I had a fight with my Ex. How can I just get over her?
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When you find yourself thinking about her, focus on the reasons for the fight and other problems in the relationship, and think about a relationship (with someone else in the future) which you would actually want that would be healthy and good. Work on making yourself as much a good healthy match for that next relationship.
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