I’m a woman, so I’m not your target here but I hope you don’t mind if I answer. I work out often and with weights. I’m a little softer in some areas than I’d like too, and I’m sure my form isn’t perfect. When I see someone like me, I think “good for them!” Any person, man or woman, with an opinion you should care about thinks the same. A gym isn’t a competition, and you should be proud of yourself for taking the first step.