answer:Where is “over here”? If university is free, can you matriculate without declaring your course of study? Or start out with general liberal arts and then, when you are legally of age, switch to soothing that you love. Can you manage financially and legally if you leave home? You are female, right? It sounds as though you are bucking the culture already by simply wanting more education? If you emancipated yourself, would there be punitive cultural and family issues? it is hard to put myself inside another culture. This is not very helpful, I know. Give us some more information. Maybe other flutters from other cultures may have more useful and practical suggestions.