Would you say ”lumping” is an abusive way to punish a child, better or worse than corporal punishment?

Would you say ”lumping” is an abusive way to punish a child, better or worse than corporal punishment?
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No.. you would lose your children’s trust… I would at least have them do something meaningful… like volunteer at a soup kitchen and help some one . I had a math teacher who made grade 7 students write math lines by powers of 10. 1 time 1 = 1 , 2 times 1 = 2 until you got to a magnitude of 10’s and double for each infraction.
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