answer:You are right to be angry @AshLeigh. Losing a friend is one of the most traumatic experiences, and it’s hard to forget it. I know the people are just trying to make you feeling better, but their mistake is that they have trivialized the seriousness of the problem. As long as your mourning doesn’t affect your daily life too much, then I think you’re fine with that. My grandma lost her husband 4 years ago, and although she can go on with her life, anytime someone mentions him she bursts in tear. It just shows that the friend has a special place in your heart.