answer:Wow. I am sorry you feel this way. You already said everything you need to hear. There is no answer for you other than to suck it up. My worry for you is that you will attempt to continue to be codependent when you move, and that will hinder your ability to genuinely propel your life forward in this new experience. Do not allow yourself to hang on so tightly when you leave. Resist the urge to stay in constant communication because you are lonely and unsure of yourself in a new and scary situation. I believe you are displacing your fears about your future (which sounds so amazing and exciting, congratulations!) onto this guy, which is classic codependent behavior. Realize the need to take care of and create a healthy you. You cannot control him, his life, or his behaviors as a way to avoid the fear of not being in control of your own life. You will be OK. This is an wonderful opportunity. Open yourself to it fully, which you cannot do if you cannot let go. It sounds cliché, but your biggest regrets are the opportunities you don’t take, or in this case, the opportunities you don’t allow yourself to experience fully. This is a game changer moment in your life. Think about that, and not someone else.