answer:We’re all unique @HC. We all have different schemas that determine what we find attractive. I don’t know what this man finds attractive about this woman, but obviously there’s something. Perhaps she’s intelligent or funny or warm and compassionate. Perhaps his desires are driven by his need to take care of people. She’s meeting some need within him. Would I want to date her? No. However, there are lots of people out there I wouldn’t want to date and some of them are very good looking. Equally, I’m certain I and you are not everyone’s cup of tea.