Am I at fault here (details inside)

Am I at fault here (details inside)
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answer:If I understand this correctly, your parents haven’t forbad you from hanging out with this girl, just given you an early curfew? If that’s the case, my suggestion would be, next time you want to go to a park like that, to tell your parents ahead of time, “I am planning on picking up (Friend-A) and (Friend-B), and all go together to the entertainment park to spend the day. I understand the time will be past my limit, but I will call to tell you I am well and safe at (time). After the park closes/we get bored/whatever, I will drop my friends off at their home and come home again.” They say it’s easier to beg forgiveness than ask permission, but in the case of parents (especially overbearing parents) getting caught in a lie usually makes things worse. Negotiation is the way around this. Tell them you understand the curfew is in your best interest, but will this special case be OK, if you promise to call?
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