Parents: Do you try to encourage your children to be more social?

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We had one very shy child who always had a few good friends. We generally supported his comfort level and the few times I tried to push him – like into joining more clubs in high school for his “resume” – always backfired. He is now a manager of projects and people at one of the large online music companies with many friends. I would follow her lead and let her find her way unless she indicates she is unhappy.

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