At first when we don't know someone I think we are all attracted to the physical appearance, it is our first impression of someone. After that we get to know them and it is their personality which becomes more important. I remember when I was young I dated some very good looking guys but they didn't come to much because some of them were not warm friendly and humourous which are characteristics I look for in a partner, I think good looking people don't have to try so hard to make an impression because they know people are drawn to them whereas those of us who are just average have to work harder. I know that some people who at first did not seem attractive to me became that way because their personality shone through. A good character is far more important than good looks.