answer:Women are just as different as men. If men would actually read between the lines they would understand women on a level that would at least permit simple communication but it usually requires developing an analytical mind and, generally men aren’t the best at reaching sub-conscious analytics. The scary thing is it puts you in a vulnerable place that… you’re probably not going to like. Men think women are so vastly different they have placed in their mind a subconscious wall that usually keeps them from ever confronting where the miscommunication between the sexes comes from in the first place. Let me give you an actual example using myspace (I know… myspace…but patient with me) You go on myspace and see your friend, who is very attached to his city, has recently moved. He has changed his location from “Carlsbad, Ca to “Nowhere, USA.” All that says to the average man is that his buddy his moved. A concrete solution to a concrete question. A female friend goes on the same page and notices the change in location. She does not think “oh he moved” instead she ponders his character, someone who is married to this little town, and deduces that he is sub consciously calling his new location “Nowhere, USA” because it isn’t Carlsbad so it might as well be “Nowhere.” She has taken a concrete question and answered it in the abstract. Who is more accurate? Both are equally accurate but have approached it from two completely different angles. Does it make more sense, now, why your girlfriend could be upset with you over something you aren’t even aware of? It isn’t because you’re ignorant or stupid, it’s because she is answering a concrete with an abstract and you are only acknowledging the concrete. Hope that sheds SOME light on a very vast idea.