Have you found, that the older you get, the more your conversations seem to be about health issues?

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Yeah, I’ve noticed and I’m only 19. :( Maybe it’s just because I have some health problems and both parents are docs so what’s wrong with one’s body is the preferred topic of conversation. I literally just called my dad 2 min ago to say “Hi” and “I have a rash…all over my body!” hahaha I don’t think it’s typical for a college student though.

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