Getting acquainted isn’t easy for everyone. It can become easier eventually, but for one who is not already at ease, it takes work, and practice. You will likely think I am nuts, but you can practice with Barbies, or Brats. Set up a potential conversation, and speak aloud for each doll. It will help you find a comfort zone with making replies. Now, for the real people part. One thing which really helps a great deal. is compliments. Giving compliments is a good way to put others around you at ease. Do not interpret that to mean you should enter a room and compliment everybody; “Nice dress”, “Cool shoes.”, “Hey I like your… um, books.” Simply make a point of being observant. Don’t stare down people. That is creepy. Just remember to see people. Notice their hair, what they wear, the way someone’s eyes light up when they talk about a celebrity they like. When someone speaks to you, look at them. Notice their expression. Are they amused by what they are saying to you? Are they concerned? The better you notice people, the easier it is to think of things to say. It becomes easier to pay compliments. You don’t have to like everything others do in order to be liked. If someone say they Like Bieber, and you think he is okay, but you are more of a Pitbull fan, you can say something like, “He’s okay, but not my favorite.” Receiving compliments well is as important as giving compliments well. When you thank someone, always do it with your voice as loud as theirs was in complimenting you. Smile, and say it cheerfully. Show on your face as much joy as you feel inside. Don’t restrict your compliments. Compliment strangers. Tell a cashier if you like her lovely manicure. If you walk past a bus stop where a lady wearing a lovely coat is waiting, let her know you think she looks lovely. Soon talking to new people will be easier for you. Good luck!