I’m trying to wrap my mind around this…for me, if it was a game, I think I’d work to get on top (because I’‘m competitive) and then have fun being the good guy by handing out fish to my less “fortunate” players. If it was literally life or death for my kids or my family, I’d do whatever it took to stay on top and everyone else be damned. If there were other, less serious, but real-life consequences involved, I think I’d try to work for the best of the whole group. Am I making any sense? Go fish.