answer:I never approached or talked to women. I was jealous and couldn’t understand guys who could do it so easily, even seemingly unaffected by rejection. I knew I had low self esteem. I didn’t think there was a point because no woman would ever want to talk to me, anyway: I had a crappy car and I didn’t have a lot of confidence. Some time passes, and I’m tired of my life passing me by while everyone else is getting laid and meeting people. I had some unsuccessful encounters when I finally got the courage to talk to a woman, but the rejection only made it worse. It didn’t help that some women were rude about it, either. More time passes and I guess I became slightly more confident the older I got. I started caring less about what every single person thought of me. I changed how I dressed, talked more in social situation instead of being quiet all the time and analyzing everything etc. I started getting compliments so I knew that may have come from some of the changes I was making. I started realizing there’s actually nothing physically wrong with my looks. I started thinking about the good things I can offer instead of the bad things, just noticing my strengths and weaknesses. So basically, as time passed and I started noticing my worth and what I can offer, I gained more self esteem and confidence. Now, I get more butts than an astray, lol. Ok, not really, but a few butts is better than no butts.