answer:Cancer is no longer a death sentence. What kind does she have? Don’t panic. You want to be loving and calm for her sake. I am a 16-year survivor of breast cancer. Half of my friends have had breast, ovarian,or prostate cancer. I soldiered through two lumpectomies, chemo and radiation and five years of meds. It is doable. Cancer does not discriminate for or against strength, gender and educational goals.