answer:I’ve worked really hard at not “locking my kids in a box”. It was a lot easier for my son, boys have so fewer restrictions put on them, so when he prefers doing community service and reading and creative writing more than sports, nobody really questions it. My daughter has faced more challenges (although she is very capable of overcoming them). I have done my best to encourage her to do what she wants and not get trapped. She played soccer through eighth grade, loved feeling good and strong on her body. She takes advanced math and advanced courses and does well. It’s a lot easier for kid now than when I was growing up, when boys took shop and girls took home ec. It takes open minded parents that encourage their kids to find their own passion.