Dealing with long distance relationships isn't that easy and i wouldn't recommend even if you're married. First there must be cheating, you cannot trust anyone 100% especially living in different countries. In fact, men are good in that and you cannot be guaranteed that someone will stay for over 6 months till they go back home. There will always be quarrels especially if there's no communication. The other person wouldn't want to know if you've been busy offline.A long distance relationship needs communication like twice or thrice a day. In case you have kids, the kids will miss you.Kids always need parents to be around them most of the times and they'll grow up knowing maybe mom loves us more than dad because she's always there for me.