How can I tell myself that I'm not going to grow into a child?

I'm not very well, my brother is an alcoholic, but every week he promises that by the time I stop giving birth, he's peeing in an apple in my brain. I feel a terrible spiritual pain, they like to hurt myself, if I cause myself physical pain, my soul is less of a race, but is it art for a child? They ignite me, but the army drops terribly to show him how awful he is, but he shouldn't be pregnant. I seriously want to know how I can reduce my spiritual pain.           
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It was very bad to read what you wrote. I'm so sorry you're in such a difficult situation. I don’t think you can harm yourself in any way, and not just because you can harm your child with it. Which, on the other hand, is very likely and I don’t want to upset you, but because of the kid, your husband won’t change. From the outside, it’s easy to be smart and I don’t see your potential, but if the situation is so hopeless you should try again.         
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