Ever feel lonely even though you have people in your life?

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Yes, but I think it’s because I’m so far away from everyone in my life (except my son). I miss having dinners with family and my friends from back east all the time. I can pick up the phone and call them at any time, but it’s not the same. I have made friends where we are at now, but it’s different from the friendships I had before.

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