I think everyone is in some sense, although I do envy people that seemed to have developed that personality of “The world is mine, I can accomplish anything!”. It took me awhile to realize how much of an effect I can have on my own comfort and pleasure by simply speaking up for myself. I always figured I was too quiet and weak to speak up, or defend myself, or just generally tell someone I don’t like what they’re doing. One of the reasons I got married was because I let my ex-wife talk me into it and just surrendered instead of putting my foot down and telling her how I really felt. I could have avoided $12,000 worth of debt and kept my youthful innocence as well as my bank account if I just stood up for myself lol.