Does it take you awhile to warm up to people (socially)

Does it take you awhile to warm up to people (socially)
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I can talk with anyone as long as they’re friendly. It takes me a lot longer to get to genuine affection. My girl is a lot like you. She’s quiet with anyone she doesn’t know well. It alwasy drives her nuts how I can talk with strangers.
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